Mrs. Moore understands that women generally believe that they lack healthy self-esteem, so she used the phrase "Don't throw away your confidence" as a springboard for her 'Atta Girl pep talk.
Doubtless, that talk encouraged numberless hurting women, assuring them that Jesus "believes in" them. How could anybody criticize her for making women feel good about themselves? After all, Ephesians 4:29 says we should build each other up with our speech!
Well, the verse does say that, but let's look at the context:
17 Now this I say and testify in the Lord, that you must no longer walk as the Gentiles do, in the futility of their minds. 18 They are darkened in their understanding, alienated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them, due to their hardness of heart. 19 They have become callous and have given themselves up to sensuality, greedy to practice every kind of impurity. 20 But that is not the way you learned Christ!— 21 assuming that you have heard about him and were taught in him, as the truth is in Jesus, 22 to put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires, 23 and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds, 24 and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness.
25 Therefore, having put away falsehood, let each one of you speak the truth with his neighbor, for we are members one of another. 26 Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, 27 and give no opportunity to the devil. 28 Let the thief no longer steal, but rather let him labor, doing honest work with his own hands, so that he may have something to share with anyone in need. 29 Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear. 30 And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. 31 Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. 32 Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you. ~~Ephesians 4:17-32 (ESV)
Using Scripture fragments as dishonestly as Beth Moore used Hebrews 10:36-37 may build up feminine egos, granted, but Paul meant building up the Church in a holiness that reflects Christ. Notice Paul's emphasis on putting away falsehood, and renouncing sensuality. How in the world does the misapplication of Hebrews 10:36-37 for the purpose of making women feel good about themselves possibly produce the type of edification that Ephesians 4:17-32 describes?
Beth Moore preaches a god that flatters women, and she does so by isolating Scripture from its context and wrongly applying it. I don't question her compassion for hurting women, nor do I doubt her sincerity. But wouldn't her ministry honor the Lord better by handling God's Word on His terms rather than her own?